Beyond a certain level of understanding, even nature itself conspires to punish us for our recurrent wrong choices we still make while choosing our marriage partners. However, it is God who chases away flies from the bodies of animals born without tails. Why am I saying this? A Christian should not think God will love us because we are good but He will make us good because He loves us.
Consider a number of marriage unions today, perhaps; you will agree with me that overwhelming unions survive only by the mercies of God. The obvious reason being, they are founded without any inspiration, motivation and/or any defined long-lasting objective. Most of them emerged out of errors, accidents, and incidents, evitable circumstances and of course people whose main objective was to satisfy their marital bliss.
What we fail to understand is that, love is not an affectionate feeling rather; it’s a steady wish for loved persons ultimate good as far as it can be obtained. As long as we remain rooted in Christ, whether with immense difficulties and semi-articulate fumbling or what would deem to us as an amazing and elliptical speed, true love will ultimately stand. After a while, the couple will finally realize they are glaringly incongruous. Ironically, these unions will remain standing amidst the cauldron the marriages couple get themselves bead. It is at this time most people believe it was out of flaming infatuation they founded their union. Owing to the greater responsibility that arose part thereof, most marriages continue as a result of the developed societal and family ties and most important the upbringing of the innocent children.
Consequently, wrong choices in marriage have continually affected the upbringing of our children. Young children miss their parents as the latter are rarely found at home to avoid the “fruits” of the uncultivated love. Quite a good number of children have no idea of what a family setup really means and will therefore find them struggling with the same problem. Problem of affection deficiency that comes along with good parenting, the warmth of togetherness and the challenges of a common.
Before most people believe that marriages never work, and probably do an inky pinky porky game in choosing their marriage partner to settle for whatever partner nature will provide, do have these in mind oh ye people. Marriage is not a reward for our discriminating and good taste in finding one another. It is the instrument through which God reveal to each one of us the beauties of others. Therefore past our understanding, let us wrap our hearts with all hobbies and luxuries, relieving it from all possible entanglement that will leave us regretting for life.